tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2022257351954875055.post4404825017052589713..comments2015-06-30T04:01:58.635-04:00Comments on Evolution of Self; Journey into Body, Mind, Spirit Balance: NO, REALLY I LOVE ITAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05498605275500824952noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2022257351954875055.post-86783441954624119992012-06-17T10:57:17.794-04:002012-06-17T10:57:17.794-04:00I have noticed in my short existence on this plane...I have noticed in my short existence on this planet that many of my friends have been divorced. Okay honestly,the majority of them. Only my husband and I have managed to stay together for over 20 years, from the onset. Lots of our friends have gotten remarried, and some of them successfully, but some seem stuck in the drama rut. What's the drama rut you may ask? Simply, it's the game we often play in high school or college after we begin dating someone that starts with "did he/she say anything about me?" digging for information outside the source. Shortly followed by "what did he/she say about me?" wanting some reassurance but again instead of going to the source expecting the "game of telephone" to give you an accurate answer. Finally the herd of drama lamas cascades down the slope and ends in the all too familiar (notice how that word ends in LIAR) explosion of emotion and energy that would/could/and should have been avoided from the onset by SIMPLY GOING TO THE SOURCE AND ASKING THE TRUTH. Some counselors and psychiatrists will tell you it's a "trust issue" some will even tell you it's a "destructive behavioral pattern" and worse yet "learned from our youth". Maybe we should address our issues with SELF honesty first. I am currently trying to address this issue with my own teens and tweens. They will come home upset and start in with "Billy said this" or "Mandy said that" and ask them to look at the truth in the situation... more often then not, they problem was with their inquiry rather then in the answer. <br /><br />Truth is a tough issue with humans. Some like to say it's in our DNA... I think they are wrong. I think we are programmed as children by the adults in our lives how to live. Unless we as adults recognize this flaw and do what we can to change it for the better in the next generation, reprogram as it would be. The human brain is a computer, the one that runs our body, but your thoughts, deeds, memories and emotions are your software. You write your own programs, you can CHOSE as the programmer how your computer runs, how it processes information. Chose your programs wisely.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com