This blog is about the experiential program Evolution of Self; Journey into Mind, Body, Spirit Balance. It discusses different aspects of the program and gives followers a forum to ask questions and express their opinions. I also share ways to connect to your higher Self and your Divine purpose, thoughts of life, family stories, poetry and other uplifting content. Thanks for stopping by,
Sunday, April 15, 2012
LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE
Sunday, April 1, 2012
FOCUSED INTENT AND WHAT IT MEANS TO YOU
Sunday, March 25, 2012
WHAT DOES YOUR JOY LOOK LIKE TODAY?
WHAT DOES
YOUR JOY LOOK LIKE TODAY?
“One of
the sanest, surest & most generous joys of life comes from being happy
over the good fortune of others.” {Robert A. Heinlein}
As some of
you know, I ask a question of the day on Face Book every morning and one
of my favorite questions was, “What does your joy look like today?” I
enjoyed the answers that I received, and they prompted this blog.
The first
person answered, “A beautiful heartwarming dramatic movie, exquisite (to
me) food, and letting my passion express itself through my creativity!” A
movie can surely influence your mood.
The
reason being that it involves all of your senses, thereby triggering your
emotions and they, in turn, trigger your chemistry. A bit sneaky yes but
very affective when you are looking for a boost to how you are feeling
that day.
Food is
another good way to “feel joy” both by its preparation and by its
consumption. Having good company in the kitchen can be very joy filled.
Someone else
quoted the Buddha; "We are shaped by our thoughts. We become
what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never
leaves."{Buddha} This is sage advice, I teach and live by the adage
that “as we think so we are.” {Chessie Roberts}
And
with the conscious, aware intention to be happy and filled with joy, you
stand a much better chance of having it happen.
One of the
answers was based on having a project go in the desired direction: “Its
contingent on if I get more people to pick up their volunteer packets for
this weekend Joy meter on the rise.” I caution you here that if your joy
depends on anything outside you, you run the risk of having it let you
down. If you are leaning on an outside project, do it with the conscious
awareness of being happy no matter which way the outcome falls, and you
will achieve greater goals than you ever before thought possible.
This next
was a conversation between two of the answering parties. “Getting my
procrastinating butt out the door and editing at the library/ (to be
honest, at the moment I am vacillating between a yoga session first or
getting straight to editing.... feeling the yoga need, but can it
wait till after?)
Reply by
person #2 “If you are “yoga-ed” your editing session will probably go
better.
Back to
person #1 “Very true, thank you, besides, this would be a quiet yoga
session now, where I may have other 'participants' later.... decision
made!” Exercise is always a good way to lift your spirits and get you
motivated and energized. Yoga is an amazing way to accomplish this because
it oxygenates your blood and the gentle stretches wake your body and make
it ready to take on the world.
Having
a defined plan is also good for your productivity because you know exactly
what to do next. You don't frustrate yourself trying to decide what your
next step will be.
The next
person chose the attitude of gratitude; “My joy looks like waking up this
morning. Good or bad, I am grateful for another day.” Being grateful
for your life and everything in it carries great joy in and of itself. If
you are truly grateful for where you are right now, you draw more joy and
good things to you.
The next
person chose a childhood memory that elicited joy from within “I
awoke to see a fog bank surrounding me this morning. It always feels
like hiding beneath the covers when I was a child. It always gives me joy”
The recalling of childhood joys and bringing that joy into
your present is a lovely to experience joy in your present.
This is one
that I use a lot; “I find something kind to do for someone else. I try to
do it anonymously (the joy is greater if I can) It doesn't have to be a
big thing, but it must be done with no thought of reward. It works every
time!” I don't think I need to add anything to this one.
Here you
have some wonderful examples of how to find joy in your life, I am sure
there are many more. The surest one I know of is to intend that you are
joyful while using the tools at your disposal to make it so. That very
last one is one I use when I am at my lowest, the rewards for both parties
are amazing!
Wishing
Bright Blessings, Love, Light and Joy to you all, Chessie
© 2012
Chessie Roberts, all rights reserved
Sunday, March 18, 2012
THERE IS ALWAYS TIME FOR COFFEE WITH A FRIEND
Bright Blessings, Chessie
Sunday, March 11, 2012
SELF ESTEEM/WORTH AND THE LAW OF ATTRACTIONAND EVOLUTION OF SELF; JOURNEY INTO BODY, MIND, SPIRIT BALANCE
Your next step is to take responsibility for your life up to now. Don't beat yourself up for things you don't feel good about or mistakes you've made. Forgive yourself and others, choose to make better choices in the future and move forward.
Your next thing is to have and show respect for yourself and what you stand for. If someone uses language that you feel is offensive, either to you or those around you, let them know. You can do this without arguing or being abusive, you can always leave. If someone crosses one of your core values, let them know that you will not engage in that behavior. If you don't respect yourself, no one else will either. As you act in ways that are worthy of you, you begin to attract people of higher frequency that will value you and themselves as well. That is how the Law of Attraction works, right? Right!
These are a few ways to get you started in the right direction to create your wonderful life your way. Step out, let your new light shine and enjoy being your awesome self! Bright Blessings, Chessie
© Chessie Roberts 2012 all rights reserved
Sunday, March 4, 2012
STRESS FROM LIFE & SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND WAYS TO HANDLE IT
With the new energy shifts and all that they entail, do you find you are having greater concerns about things such as the economy, budget cuts, your life in general, cash flow, higher demands on your time and resources, that next load of laundry, anything at all? Well a yes answer to any of those puts you in the “you have stress” category. The other side of this is the huge up swing in changes in our biology brought on by rapid spiritual growth. These changes are being called Ascension Symptoms. Not to worry, help is on the way.
Because we are all feeling more and sharing more these days, patterns are coming to the light. Some of what we are feeling and sharing are Ascension Symptoms and some aren't. There are many Ascension Symptoms that masquerade as illness so I want to share some warning signs of both the symptoms and becoming overwhelmed by stress. I am not doing this to scare you but to inform you so that you can make an informed decision about what you are going through. Some of these events can also be explained by other, possible medical situations. Before we go any further, if you feel that you are experiencing any of these symptoms or warning signs, PLEASE see your doctor or health care provider for an exam to be sure where your personal ‘stuff’ is coming from. If you get a clean bill of health it could be part of the spiritual growth most of us are going through. Understand the these are just guidelines and most, if not all of them can/are directly related to physical changes that can be brought on by spiritual growth.
CHANGES IN YOUR BEHAVIOR:
Nervous habits either starting or coming back
Pulling away, isolating yourself
Eating (too much or not enough)
Use of nicotine, alcohol or any drug (prescription or recreational)
Neglecting your responsibilities
Procrastination
Sleeping (too much or not enough)
CHANGES IN YOUR THOUGHT PROCESSES;
Difficulty or an inability to concentrate
Focusing only on negative aspects of your life
Problems with memory
Constant worrying
Difficulty or an inability to focus for any length of time
Displaying poor judgment
Overly anxious
Racing thoughts
YOUR PHYSICAL BODY;
Loss of sex drive
More frequent occurrence in respiratory problems, such as; Colds, sinus infections, bronchitis etc
Frequent gastro/intestinal problems, such as; Diarrhea, gas, constipation, cramps, nausea etc.
Dizziness
Pain in chest and/or upper arm
Heart rate becomes rapid
General, undefined aches and pains
YOUR EMOTIONS;
Feeling overwhelmed
Moodiness; irritable, agitated, can’t relax, can’t get going, short tempered
Depressed, don’t care
Feeling alone or isolated (even around others)
Generally unhappy with everything/one
You need to remember that your emotions and actions are contagious to both yourself and to others. If you are able to control you in a balanced manner, that too will spread to those around you and, you will be ahead of the game. Once you are in a downward spiral, it will build and possibly become out of control. If you are consciously aware of your spiritual growth patterns and can remind yourself to be grateful for your symptoms of spiritual growth and raised vibrations, you will find that you tolerate the symptoms better and they recede quite a bit.
How does this occur you may ask? It happens because thoughts are fluctuations of energy that are carried by chemicals called neuropeptides. Your body is a shameless eavesdropper and will instantly react to your thoughts even before you are aware of them. When this happens, emotions are kicked into play and they heighten your reactions. Have you ever been startled by what you thought was a spider or a snake only to discover that you were mistaken? Well there you have a perfect example of the phenomenon.
This also occurs when you speak of something you ‘feel’. I learned my lesson the hard way. I was at my chiropractors one day because of terrible lower back spasms. While on the table the Dr. and I were conversing about my day and I answered one of his questions with a cleaver quote from a movie that I was currently using for laughs, “That makes my butt twitch.” I know, I know, not very ladylike but the Dr noticed that as I spoke the quote, I had another spasm! He said, “I think I found your problem.” And he was correct. I stopped saying that particular phrase and my spasms dropped off dramatically.
The lesson here is when you pay attention to your ‘self’ on a conscious level, you become better in tune with you so you know sooner when you are reaching your limit. Limits of stress or dealing with spiritual growth or dealing with others. So what can you do to help yourself? First, breathe. As you breathe, you exchange the atoms of your body. As you replace the tired ones with fresh ones, you feel better. Regular breathing will exchange about 98% of your body’s atoms per year, deep conscious breathing raises that rate. I’m talking about the deep in through the nose, blow it out through the mouth, empty your lungs kind of breathing. (Careful and don’t hyperventilate) you should not have to do this more that 3-4 times to feel the effects. As you breath, reach for that gratitude I mentioned earlier. You may find that there is a lesson in all of this for you. By acknowledging gratitude for growth, you will find help in regaining your balance. You may also realize potential where you thought there was none.
Here are some other ways to control or reduce stress, thereby assisting in your spiritual ascension;
PHYSICAL BODY/LIFESTYLE CHANGES; (start with small steps)
Move; walk, drink water not soda, make better food choices
Cut way down on nicotine and alcohol
Get into a regular sleep schedule (as best you can)
Balance your work, family, rest, play time
Don’t over or under commit (you will learn where your limits are)
Leave some wiggle room in your schedule, leave earlier to account for traffic etc
Take breaks and leave your desk, room or building
Prioritize tasks, delegate when you can and do the least pleasant task first or when you are at your strongest time of day
Hydrate yourself
YOUR MENTAL STATE (MIND);
Learn and practice meditation (pray to ask, meditate to listen for answers)
Learn and practice correct self talk to create better communication with yourself and consequently, others. (add your guidance here, they will lead you in the right direction)
Make time to read positive, up lifting things that are not business or news related
Find/make a calm, quiet place (it really is OK to have one)
Learn to truly like your ‘self’ with no judgments or criticism
Hydrate
YOUR SPIRIT;
Have/attend regular religious/spiritual rituals to reconnect with the Greater Power. Use gratitude here too as there is usually a lesson in there for you if you look for it.
Pray to ask
Meditate to listen/help
Help someone in true need
Laugh with genuine humor
Learn with gratitude, love and joy
Enjoy
“Remember the definition of relaxing is not lying on the couch, sleeping or being lazy; it is a mentally active practice that leaves the body relaxed and refreshed. It is best done in an awake state. It is a trainable exercise that gets better with practice.” University of Michigan Health Center
Bright Blessings, Chessie
Sunday, February 26, 2012
THE IMPORTANCE OF KEEPING ALIVE THAT LITTLE SPARK OF BOZO
Laughter renews hope;
It can ease all types of pain from arthritis to that of a heart break, it relieves tension (it is why we sometimes laugh in what we feel is an inappropriate situation) Laughter causes us to change the way we are looking at a situation.
As you laugh and relax;
Laughter spreads through a group;
Laughter lifts us over high ridges and lights up dark valleys
in a way that makes life so much easier. It is a priceless gem,
a gift of release and healing direct from Heaven.{Alan Cohen}