Traditional Transylvanian house blessing.
This blog is about the experiential program Evolution of Self; Journey into Mind, Body, Spirit Balance. It discusses different aspects of the program and gives followers a forum to ask questions and express their opinions. I also share ways to connect to your higher Self and your Divine purpose, thoughts of life, family stories, poetry and other uplifting content. Thanks for stopping by,
Sunday, October 9, 2011
HOW TO DIMINISH NEED
Traditional Transylvanian house blessing.
Sunday, July 24, 2011
CELEBRATING GRATITUDE
CELEBRATING
GRATITUDE
I know that I talk a lot about gratitude but that is because it is so
important. Celebrating it is even more so. I say to you that whatever your
situation there is something that you can find to grateful for, even if it just
that you are alive because where there is life, there is hope and where there
is hope there is potential for change.
When we can actually celebrate our blessings, our gifts and the good things we
have with heartfelt gratitude, we allow ourselves room to focus on our good
fortune rather than on what we feel we lack. It allows us to absorb ourselves
in good and positive feelings of joy and cheerfulness. As we have learned in
the Law of Attraction, because like attracts like, we attract more goodness and
joyfulness.
When these feelings rule your life there is no room for negative, toxic
energies that create stress and illness and worry. This joyous state of
gratitude and love is a shining beacon to the Universe that we are receptive to
and appreciative for all the rewards that we currently have, and we are also
open and ready for more of the same.
Wishing all of you much Gratitude, Love and Bright Blessings, Chessie
© C.S. Roberts 2011 all rights reserved
Sunday, July 10, 2011
THE RETURN TO YOURSELF
THE RETURN
TO YOURSELF
One day the
air was playing tag with itself and a little puff found himself separated from
the main grouping. He had whooshed into something blue and round. He had been
unhappy with his life and had wished for something to change so that he could
be happy again, until now, nothing had.
“Look at
me!” he said to himself, “I’m beautiful! Everyone should see me now!” the
little blue puff of air floated away to show off his newfound beauty. As he
looked down at the grass waving in the breeze the little puff of air felt
superior and yelled, “Hey you grass! Look at me! I am beautiful and you all
look the same, I am special! Look at me!!!” the grass just chuckled and paid no
attention. This made the puff of air in his balloon feel let down and a little
angry.
The little
puff in its balloon covering was not to be ignored and continued on his way
until he came to the forest. “Hey you forest! Look at me! I am beautiful and
you all look the same, I am special! Look at me!!!” again, the forest just
chuckled and paid no attention to the little balloon. With each rejection, the
little puff in his balloon got angrier and more determined to be thought of as
special.
So, the
little balloon floated out over the ocean, “Hey you water! Look at me! I am
beautiful and you all look the same, I am special! Look at me!!!” as before the
ocean paid no attention and went on its way.
The balloon
was becoming very angry now because no one would admire his newfound beauty and
exclaim about how special he was. “I am beautiful and I am special,” he
grumbled to himself, “Why do others ignore me?” “It isn’t fair and they are
making me unhappy because they don’t think I’m special!”
He floated
and grumbled and grumbled and floated for a long time all the while becoming
angrier with others and increasingly unhappy because of what he thought they
were thinking about him. Suddenly he heard laughter and decided to go see who
was having fun while he was so miserable. To his astonishment he saw up ahead
an entire group of balloons laughing and playing together. There were all
different shapes and colors and they were…happy. Delighted to have found others
like himself, he rushed into their midst and shouted, “Hey you balloons! Look
at me! I am beautiful and you all need to admire me because I am special! Look
at me!!!”
“What’s so
special about you?” one of the group wanted to know. “All the red, round
balloons are better than you!” “No! The green ones are best!” “They
are not!” shouted a yellow one, “we are the best! “The little blue balloon was
stunned, how could these other balloons think they were more special than him
in his new blue form? Other balloons were gathering around, each one declaring
themselves the most special and the best of all of the balloons! “How rude! How
arrogant of them!” thought the blue balloon and his anger begin to spill out
and infect the others. They were soon an angry mob.
He moved
away from the arguing crowd and toward the other blue balloons that were
beginning to group together, “Where did the laughter and fun go? Why are they
arguing? We should be the only ones who are angry, we are the only ones who can
be considered the best!” he asked the others. “Well,” answered the other
balloons, “ it is obvious that they are jealous of us because we are the better
balloon.”
Before he
knew what was happening, a fight broke out! There was pushing, shoving,
shouting and hitting. What had been just an argument was now a war and balloons
were being injured, and the ugliness was getting unmanageable. The fight got
worse and worse and the little blue balloon was afraid and tried to get away
from the horrible mess. As the blue balloon was running away, two somethings
happened; first he realized that he had started the battle and the second thing
was, he burst!
His
beautiful blue was just a shriveled, empty and useless thing, fluttering down
to the ground and he found the he was free! He had rejoined with and become
once more what he truly was, air! He was once again his true self; happy,
carefree and at peace. The rest of the air rejoiced to have him back and
welcomed him with love and happiness. “Why aren’t you angry with me for being
so vain and arrogant?” the little puff of air asked.
The air
considered his question for a moment and answered,” When one of us goes out on
their own to discover their path and learn about life as something that they
are not, we let them go. As they grow and learn what is on their path, it
always brings them back to their source and we are always glad to have them
home and welcome them with love. Now what lessons did you learn while you were
apart from us?”
The little
puff of air thought for a minute and said, “We need to see the air in everyone
and love that part of them because we are all part of each other, be true to
yourself, don’t waste your time trying to be what you are not, see our
likenesses and not try to create differences to fight about. Is that
right?”
The air
answered, “Each person learns different lessons but the ones that you have
listed are some of the biggest and most universal. Welcome home and be at
peace.” The little puff of air, now wiser and at peace with himself gladly
embraced his place in the universe.
As people we
need to recognize the Universal Energy of Creation that is the animating force
in each of us. Look for how we are alike and embrace that and stop fighting
over what we perceive as differences. Learn the difference between the “power
to” and the “power over” and allow others to be what they are. Bright
Blessings, Chessie
© C. S.
Roberts 2011, all rights reserved
Sunday, June 26, 2011
WHAT SHOULD I SAY WHEN I TALK TO MYSELF?
WHAT SHOULD
I SAY WHEN I TALK TO MYSELF?
What you
should say to yourself depends entirely upon what you wish to achieve. It is
said in many places that “where your attention goes, energy flows” and that
“like attracts like.” That should give you strong guidelines for your self-talk
First, what
do you desire? You must first truly and intensely wish to achieve something
definite. It does not matter what it is, money, a new home, a job either new or
a different one, a vacation, a mate…anything. As you desire (notice I did not
say want) whatever it is you put your energy in that direction;
and your mind becomes saturated with whatever it is so that you can
feel you already have it, Nature begins to assist you. How? We don’t really
know, She just does and it works. I caution you here that this also works for
things you feel you don’t desire as well.
If you put
your energy into thinking about everything you do not wish to have you just
bring more of it in to your life. Confused yet? Ok think about this for a
minute. Someone said to me the other day, “I am so worried about my daughter!
She is having a baby, and I am afraid for her!” I asked why, what was wrong
with the daughter and her unborn child. “Oh nothing,” the woman said, “it’s
just that I had trouble giving birth and I just know she will too, so I am
worried sick.” Do you see what this person is doing? With her worry, she is
creating an unpleasant and possibly dangerous and life-threatening situation
for everyone involved.
How could
she turn that around? By putting her fears aside and being genuinely grateful
for her daughter and new grandchild. Being confident and appreciative for the
Drs and their skill and surrounding her daughter with positive loving and
supportive energy. This thought process will not only help the daughter, the
baby, everyone on the hospital team but it will help her too. See how it works?
I know you
have heard about creating a self-fulfilling prophecy and that is what you do
when you talk/think to yourself. It is your choice to create the situation you
really desire or the other one (the situation you don’t want).
Speaking
positively and kindly to yourself is a new way to think when you first start
out and it does take some practice but once you get the hang of it, it’s not so
hard.
1) Look for
the good in things rather than what annoys you.
2) Find
beauty in your surroundings and enjoy it.
3) Be
grateful for everything you already have and
4) get rid
of what you have that you don’t use. Make room for what you really desire.
5) Choose
your words/thoughts carefully and with conscious awareness so that they are
worthy of you and see how much better your outcomes are.
Bright
Blessings, Chessie
©C. S.
Roberts 2011 all rights reserved
Sunday, June 12, 2011
DUALITY
DUALITY
“Truly speaking, a human being is divine. It is only our wrong understanding
which keeps us small.” (Swami Muktananda)
During my daily meditation a few days ago I was struck by the notion that we
are a duality. Most of you know that we are a spiritual entity, leading a human
existence rather than the other way around but this insight was just beyond
that.
One part of us is our biology. That is made up of the stuff of the earth. The
neutrons and protons; the carbon base that sustains life on our blue marble
makes up what we see when we look in the mirror; the way our bodies work to
first create new life and then keep it going; the genetic information that is
held in sperm and ovum that joins to make you what you are and carry the
information of your lineage is nothing short of miraculous. But…
If this biology is to actually live, we need spirit. Most of us realize on some
level that we are spirit, but what does this really mean? The short answer is
that we are one with Universal Consciousness, Creative Energy, Soul or some
call it God. Call it what you will the force that animates our biology is
something that we go through most of our life seeing as something separate from
us as people. Think about this for a minute, what animates us? Is it not our
mind? The part that thinks, reasons, creates? I’m not talking about the organ
of the brain that is our controller; I mean the part that you will not exist
without, your mind. Some have told me that they think the soul is in our heart,
but my meditative awakening tells me it in our mind. That is where we truly
are. Yes, yes, it is all a package that needs to work together I agree but
without your mind, what are you?
You can lose almost any body part and stay alive but without your mind, you
have no quality of life. If you can see that you are truly part of Universal
Consciousness and renew that connection to your true source you will see truth,
you will know peace, you will be one with God, whatever you perceive that to be
and you will be happy, blissful, joyful and you will truly know love.
If you were a rain drop how would you see yourself? Would you see yourself as
alone or part of the storm? How do feel you would identify yourself? Now see
this little drop that is you falling into a stream. How would you see yourself
then? How would you be different than the stream? You wouldn’t, you would be
part of the water in the stream. Then part of a river as your stream emptied
into a larger body of water, soon you would become something even greater, you
would be one with the ocean! Well, I’m telling you that you already are
something greater than the sum of your parts… you are the I AM. You are part of
the Universal Consciousness that animates and joins us all on the most intimate
level of all. We are the Energy of Creation, we are its’ conduit, we are vessels.
We are exponential so honor yourself, honor your family and friends, honor
those you do not know or feel you don’t like, yes, even honor your enemies and
learn true love and peace and then spread it around, Namaste and Bright
Blessings, C. S. Roberts
© 2011 Chessie Roberts, all rights reserved
Sunday, May 22, 2011
SEEKING YOUR OWN LEVEL
SEEKING YOUR OWN LEVEL
As humans, we relate to others from our own perceptions. If a person is a
thief, they see thievery in everyone around them, likewise, if a person is
prone to lying, they assume that everyone lies.
As
enlightenment begins to occur and we learn to see things as they truly are, it
becomes more and more apparent that we relate to others on our own level. As
our vibrations rise and we begin living from a place of love and acceptance,
those with whom we associate begins to change. Just as the wheat is separated
from the chaff in the wind, those with whom we no longer vibrate leave our
sphere of influence. It happens spontaneously and is not something we should be
concerned about; the Universe takes care of that.
We ebb and flow just like the tide. Because adult human beings are 70% water,
we naturally seek others like ourselves just as water seeks its own level. Even
though we are like a drop of water in an ocean (part of all on Earth) we are
pulled to a higher calling just as water changes states as it evaporates and
rises to become vapor in order to become rain and nourish what is below. As we
rise, we too change states so that we are able to nourish those around us.
Those who are ready for what we have to offer will soak it up as we act in a
worthy manner and vibrate where we are supposed to be. Those who are not ready
just won’t get it and move on within their own realm of understanding, this is
OK, and this is how enlightenment works.
As we rise higher than those around us, we must be aware that the ego has no
place here. If someone gets so wrapped up in their new growth status that they
wish others to notice and praise them for it, their growth will stop. Our ego
acts like a dam and stops our flow just as water can be stopped. This will lead
to frustration and unhappiness, and we will be of no good to ourselves or
anyone else. The ancient saying says that “before enlightenment we chop wood
and carry water and after enlightenment we chop wood and carry water.” The difference
between before and after is that after we truly understand why we are chopping
and carrying. We truly understand how our actions; done with understanding
teaches and raises those around us. We do our mundane chores with a new joy,
with a new humility, with a new feeling of freedom and bliss.
So be like water and seek your own level, wear down obstacles, sweep a clean
path, change states as you need to achieve your enlightenment and do it all
without ego, with grace, with love and joy.
Bright Blessings, C. S. Roberts
© Chessie Roberts 2011, all rights reserved
Sunday, March 6, 2011
What Are You Thinking?(About)
What Are You Thinking?(About)
Grant Morris said, “Your head's like mine, like all our heads; big enough to
contain every god and devil there ever was. Big enough to hold the weight of
oceans and the turning stars. Whole universes fit in there! But what do we
choose to keep in this miraculous cabinet? Little broken things: sad trinkets
that we play with over and over. The world turns our key, and we play the same
little tune again and again and we think that tune's all we are.”
Unfortunately, he is correct. Humans have a tendency to keep and hold all the
hurtful and broken bits of life. We hang on to them like they are our defining
images. Because we identify so strongly with and invest so much emotion and
energy into these nasty little tidbits that we eventually manifest that broken
energy as the person we project to the world. We actually believe that it is
these “sad little trinkets” that define us and so that is what we become;
“…little broken things…playing the same little tune again and again and we
think that tune's all we are.” Personally, I don’t feel that I want to be sad,
broken, small, or having the “world turning my key” so that I dance to the
tunes of others. I want to be my own master and play my own music and be all
that I can be but, I am asked often, is this change possible?
Consider that Morris also said “Your head's like mine, like all our heads;
big enough to contain every god and devil there ever was. Big enough to hold
the weight of oceans and the turning stars. Whole universes fit in there!” so
I challenge you to see this side of being human; this part of us that will
allow us to do away with the false beliefs and notions and allow the seeing of
the magnificent, positive thoughts and universes that we can embrace and
create.
Everything
in life should please and astonish you with its awesomeness and that is what
you should embrace. Embrace it, hold it close, share it with everyone and let
it shine out from your innermost being. Understand that you can change what you
think about as well as how you think about things. By doing this one thing you
can and will turn your whole world around and make it the beautiful, exciting
and loving place you live in. Consider this as you form your opinions and
beliefs from now on.
Bright Blessings, Chessie
© Chessie Roberts 2011 all rights reserved